Saturday, 26 December 2009

I was just blogging a few minutes ago about phobia and stuff, thankfully I came across this! I wanted to post this like a few months ago...but haven't got the time. Lol. More of like I'm busy with school that I totally forgot about these meaningful words. How could I? What a shame. Hahaha. Remember I was speaking of fear on one of my previous entries? I got some of the ideas from my one on one conversation with Naddie and of course, definitely from these words. :)

">about conquering, controlling and banishing fear<

strength conquers fear.
strong minds controls fear.
strong willpower banishes fear.


we all have our fears. losing our loved ones. losing our jobs. losing money to failed investments. losing our hopes for a better future. losing our faith.

we fear so many things that sometimes seem uncertain. this fear can either overcome us or make us even stronger. it's how you convert that fear into a tool to push you forward. to strive and excel in whatever you do. to be better than what you are today. to perform better than how you did yesterday or the days before.

we all have phobias at some stage of our lives, its part of who we are, it's what drives us. however, even though we all have it, some have it more than others for various reasons. many will deal with the psychology of failure in an analytical way but some will just crumble under the pressure, its quite common for some to give up before they even start.

if you succumb to that fear, then you will fall back into the safety net and continue living in the rat race. to work and make ends meet. be safe or take risks? you decide on which path that suits you best. fear hinders greatness but it also propels towards it.

if we choose to face fear, we will walk out a better man. despite overcoming it or not, it's the act of looking fear into the eye and getting through it that makes us more enriched as a person.

if you fall. get up and continue walking. don't sit down and cry at the reasons that caused you to fall and wait for someone to pull you up. this is your journey. and along the way, you will find people who will run with you, lead and even pace your walk. life will never come easy. it's the bumpy journey that makes it exciting.

i truly feel that life is too short for what-ifs. i've got so many fears myself but i choose not to focus so much of my energy on it. convert that energy into positivity and look forward to grooming and exploring your potentials to a higher level.

"A child does not have to be taught how to be happy or the ways of love. It is fear, hatred, and prejudice that have to be taught. And from the condition of the world we can see that unfortunately there are some very good teachers."

fear not my friend, for God will always be with you. Insya'allah. =)"



- Nona Kirana.

Now you see why she's my most favourite DJ? It's obvious. Now I know what to do. Whenever I feel the phobia in me, I'll remind myself of her words. If I don't/can't remember, I can always re-read it a million times more......cause it helps that much. :) You all should do the same too ya!

Love and peace, readers. :D

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