I've been wanting to update on this topic since LAST YEAR but have not been able to. It's either I don't have the time or I totally forgot about it due to busy schedules. O.o
I found this on the internet and it's really interesting that rejection actually causes heartbrake too. Yeah heartBRAKE. Not only heartBREAK. As if heartbreak isn't enough to kill you. Rejection in what sense you may ask? When you're being rejected by another person. "Social rejection causes one's heart-rate to drop for a moment." It slows down your heart-rate. To think of it, it isn't that bad right? I mean it's only for a moment. Hahahaha. Ok I was kidding.
But.. "Rejection doesn't hurt quite as much when it's expected and you've braced for it." Know what that means? I'll give a situation example: If a guy is going after a girl and confesses to her about his feelings but is prepared for rejection somehow, then it doesn't quite hurt as much than when he's expecting it too much and got rejected. I guess it'll kill you for a while. Only for a while though. So chill and don't hope too much. Expect the worst to come. And if the best appear, you'll feel deeply blessed. If not, move on! :)
To read more, visit: "Rejection causes heartbrake".
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